On Turning Sixty

Although it's brought me that much closer towith whom I come into contact, "Thanks, that's
transforming into worm food, I've found thatgreat." Though probably 500 of them have looked
turning sixty is not without its compensations.at me in a very askance kind of way-and one,
While it's true, for example, that my member isn'tI'm not sure why exactly, punched me in the
getting a proper supply of blood anymore-andstomach-I've gotten six lunches doing this that I
that I can no longer write my name in the sandwould otherwise have missed out on. Not to
and must settle for my initials-I can still have lotsmention a free ticket to a Robert Goulet concert!)
of fun with it. Thanks to a prostate gland theBut if the benefits and drawbacks of my hearing
Museum of Humongous Prostate Glands hasimpairment are more or less equal, the short-term
already put in a bid for when I buy the farm, mymemory loss that's accompanied my
urine stream now bifurcates at the exit point. Thissexagenarianism has a plus side that actually
means that I can pee into the toilet and theoutweighs its minus side. I'm speaking, of course,
adjacent bathtub at the same time-which is aof the guarantee it can afford me that a movie
kick. My urologist says that while he can make noI'm going to will be a good one. I'll notice, for
promises, there's a good chance that in the notinstance, an ad for a movie and tell a friend about
too distant future I'll be capable of TRIfurcating.it. The friend will advise me that I saw the movie
This will enable me to pee in the toilet, thejust a week ago. I'll ask him if I liked it and if he
bathtub AND the laundry basket simultaneously.says, "Yeah, you couldn't stop talking about it," I'll
I can't wait.think, hey, how often does a movie come with
And by making it possible to legitimately ignoreTHAT kind of recommendation and I'll go
questions that have always annoyed the hell outimmediately to see it. I'm told that I've seen "Pearl
of me ("When are you getting a job?" is aHarbor" eight times now.
persistent one that's never failed to spill some(I might add here that my short-term memory
really nasty chemicals in my brain), my newlyloss in no way affects my ability to remember
developed hearing loss has a terrific upside as well.the last time I had sex.)
Not, to be sure, that its downside isn't just asBut of the many compensatory rewards that
major. I mean, how many invitations to lunchturning sixty provides, there's one that I value
have I blown? How many people have said, "Letmost of all. Although I can still croak at a
me buy you lunch," and I've said in reply, "But weRELATIVELY early age, I'll be spared the
still don't have Bin Laden"? (As thorny as thisembarrassment of expiring at a TRAGICALLY
problem is, I've managed to ease it somewhat byearly age.
saying, maybe a dozen times a day to people