The Authentic B&B Experience

Many travellers, whether for business or pleasure,If you know there's a food that you can't or
miss out on the experience of staying at andon't eat, please don't keep it a secret. If it does
authentic B&B. The concept of Bed &remain unknown to your host, Murphy 's Law
Breakfast was conceived in the UK many yearssays it will be served to you at your very first
ago, with a traveller paying by the night andbreakfast!
joining in with residents of the B&B, oftenSomething that many people don't expect is that
sharing a simple meal around the kitchen table,they will be sharing a bathroom with other
often sharing the one and only family bathroom.guests...or even the host's family! Two rooms,
In olden days, travellers returned often to theeach occupied by two people is usually an
same B&B, where they were welcomed asacceptable shared bath arrangement. However if
family; it was indeed their "home away fromthere are more than four users of the
home". Today, Bed and Breakfast has grown inbathroom...hmmm? In this situation, the bathroom
both its sophistication and ranking in the world ofavailability needs to be closely monitored by the
hospitality. A B&B can be anything from ahost with an alternate bathroom be available for
croft in the highlands of Scotland to a luxuriousthat "urgent" situation.
multi-room establishment in Manhattan, New York.By definition, private bath means the guest has
So how can the "novice B&B enquirer"there own bathroom, but it is not adjoining their
increase their odds of a pleasurable and authenticbedroom... whereas, ensuite has the bathroom
B&B experience? Listen & ask questions.adjoining the bedroom.
The importance of making personal "voice"Bedrooms should have the ability to be totally
contact with the prospective host is stressed. Edarkened should that be your preference. If you
mails are fine, but they don't always communicateare not used to a bedroom that "rises" with the
the warmth you would appreciate from asun, you can be robbed of a few valuable sleep
B&B host. For the most part, a voice on thehours.
telephone is more likely to give you confidenceIf you will be visiting with a car, find out if your
that the host, with whom you are consideringparking spot will be on site? Is there an additional
"living with", albeit for a short time, is interested incharge for parking? Will car jockeying be required?
meeting your needs.Find out in advance what terms of payment your
Some B&B's employ booking registries tohost will accept...this may avoid your having to run
actually make their booking for them. In this casearound on your day of checkout, searching for an
you may not have an opportunity to talk directlyATM machine.... because you've just found out
with your host until you are their front door.cash is the only form of payment accepted!
Making sure that the host actually lives on theA B&B is first of all your host's home and
B&B premises is always a good idea.secondly a B&B...and there is usually a
Sometimes they don't, leaving you to fend forcommon area(s) where guests are able to sit
yourself. It's strange how something that youquietly and enjoy some TV or read the
would see as only a minor issue in your ownnewspaper. Hosts appreciate that guests respect
home...can present a resident guest withtheir privacy...it a two way street in this regard.
unwelcome stress in an unattended B&B!Not all B&B's accept children as guests and
(Most municipalities do have bylaws stipulating thatthere is no doubt that a couple of youngsters can
the B&B owner live in the B&B.)change the dynamics of the B&B
Breakfast! If you are more a Bed & Brunchexperience...and not always in a positive way.
type of person, be sure to check out if in fact,It certainly does not guarantee a great B&B
any breakfast will be available past a certain time?stay, but positive reviews posted on line by
B&B's vary in their breakfast repertoires andprevious guests will give you confidence that the
schedules. Likewise, if you have a need for aB&B you are considering is well run with a
very early breakfast and you haven't mentionedgood reputation. If there is one thing that you can
it in advance, don't be disappointed if uponbe assured of, it is that every B&B will
checking in, your early morning breakfast requestprovide a unique experience. Enjoy!
is politely turned down.